Well, the older they get, the more they don't look alike. Before I had Riley I was nervous about wanting Riley to be just like Tyler. But now that I have him, it has helped me accept Tyler even more and love both my boys more. I used to feel like I had to make excuses for Tyler when he was whinny or what not, but now that I have another I have realized that no excuse is needed at all. Kids will be kids and I love each of my boys just the way they are. They are same in many ways and different in others. I love that they are different, but both mine.